Thursday, November 16, 2023
Galen's sudden absence has revealed to me that many more people care about and supported him than I ever realized. He is an inspiration because he reached out and got involved and made a fulfilling life for himself.
I recall that I met Galen's mother first. We have been neighbors of the Ritchies since 1987. She was very solicitous of the level of care we took of our beloved little dog and we would chat about it by telephone. She was ever the sweet lady.
My husband and daughter paid a visit to Galen's father, before he passed away. He was the retired State Archaeologist living in our midst and a person worthy of esteem.
Somehow, we became acquainted with Galen as well. I believe it was through the Bethlehem Historical Association and that connection continued from then on.
For years, after his retirement, Galen walked around town, visiting store owners and neighbors whom he befriended, always stopping if I was in the yard for a hearty and informative chat. Galen could explain the lines of the British Monarchy in great detail. He had a phenomenal memory for dates. Russian history was also his forte, as well as science, religion, astronomy, archaeology and history (ancient and modern). I am better-informed thanks to my learned friend.
When walking became less possible, Galen reinvigorated his association with his St. Stephen's family and I think he was at the church on almost daily basis. Still, he dropped off his Sunday Times to us every week.
Others have commented about his gentlemanly manners. He also always asked after family members and their welfare, even giving gifts to our grandchildren. He was always generous in that way, especially with chocolates.
I miss the day trips we used to take together, to the Berkshires, area museums, and to Rhinebeck for the antique shows, Galen in the front seat with my husband and me in the back trying to get a word in edgewise. "You don't know what you've got till it's gone."
Releasing our steadfast friend to his God is difficult, but what he would have wanted. Rest in peace, Dr. Ritchie. You are and will be missed.
Susan Gutman